Review: “A Ghost Story” & My Experience With Ghosts

a ghost story poster5starWe build our legacy piece by piece and maybe the whole world will remember you or maybe just a couple of people, but you do what you can to make sure you’re still around after you’re gone.”

I gained more insight of the possibilities of life after death from a ghost in a sheet than I have in thirty-one years from any textbook. The complexities of the afterlife may be more simple than we’ve imagined and may not be what we expect.

When I was growing up in the ’90s, I lived in a mansion in New Orleans that was built in 1900. It reeked of history in every crack and creak it possessed, and I always felt an unexplainable presence. Although I never saw her, three vital people in my life saw a little girl in that house, whom they thought was me, until she myseriously vanished.

We always labeled her as the ghost, a spirit of the past who possibily died in the house. But what if this “ghost” wasn’t a stranger? What if this girl was actually me, but from a different time or alternative dimension?

It’s a thought that never crossed my mind, but it’s a theory that A Ghost Story wants us to explore.


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C (Casey Affleck) is a struggling musician living with his wife M (Rooney Mara) in a small suburban house in the Dallas/Fort Worth area. After a car accident takes C’s life, he returns as a white-sheeted ghost to his home to reconnect with his wife only to discover the enormity of existence and life after death.

An artistic exploration of love and loss, I warn you that this movie is a slow-burner. With extensively long, exaggerated takes within the first 30 minutes, I was concerned that I might snooze through this one, but my advice is to give it time and have patience. The payoff is worth your endurance of the film’s intentionally lethargic first act.


Director David Lowery (Ain’t Them Bodies Saints) was so aware that this creative, experimental film may fall flat that he filmed it entirely in secret. Casey Affleck wearing a white bedsheet drifting from scene to scene may sound a little ludacris, but it managed to flesh out perfectly. As The Guardian explains, “The film ranks low for scares – it’s more likely to keep you up at night fretting about the meaning of life than to make you terrified of a spirit under the bed.”

Lowery was basically having an extistential crisis about the fate of humanity and writing/directing A Ghost Story was his therapy.

“The trigger, he says, was a Pulitzer-prize winning article by Kathryn Schulz in the New Yorker about an earthquake that scientists believe will take out a sizeable chunk of northwest America. ‘It freaked me out,’ he says. ‘I started piling on other fears: the political situation in the US and all over the world. I was not feeling optimistic about the future of mankind. I felt the world was on its way to ending. The film became my way of dealing with those issues.’” via The Guardian


There’s going to be a lot of people who watch this utterly disappointed in what they saw, because it won’t be what they expected. Maybe that’s why I loved it, but I’m afraid the majority of audiences won’t appreciate the experimental nature of the film and what it says about the afterlife. I felt more emotion and more depth from a 21st century Casper than I have from any other film this year.

When we moved out of my childhood home in 2003, none of us experienced anything supernatural again. Whether or not there is some truth behind A Ghost Story is obviously unknown, but I can tell you there’s something out there.

tumblr_onj2q2Jogl1rg5f9ko2_540When I was little and we used to move all the time, I’d write these notes. And I’d fold them up really small, and I would hide them. What did they say? They were just things I wanted to remember so that if I ever wanted to go back, there’d be a piece of me there waiting for me.

16 thoughts on “Review: “A Ghost Story” & My Experience With Ghosts”

  1. You really connected with A Ghost Story on a personal level… wonderful review (although I feel that using the word “review” diminishes what you wrote).

    It’s interesting thst you pointed out that the film will most probably not understood by many people. I often think of this when watching/reading/examining something. It (acceptance or rejection) may be a good indicator of different qualities in humanity, like kindness, conscience orr worse qualities.

    1. Thank you!! The polar opposite opinions floating around reminded me a lot of Mother…either people loved it or absolutely hated it. Between those two, I prefer the subtle nature of A Ghost Story over the in-your-face final act of Mother. If any of that makes sense.

  2. Great post! I have read quite a number of reviews for this one this week, but this one is by far the best, because you made it personal. And that’s something I really enjoy seeing in any post. Keep up the good work 😊

    1. Thank you so much! I never expected to have a personal connection to a movie like this, but it surprisingly resonates more than you can imagine. Definitely give this one a shot and thanks for stopping by!

  3. This was a great read! It’s awesome that you connected with the film the way you did. I liked it too, it’s one of those where I can definitely understand why some might not though. That pie eating scene for example went on for several minutes too long. I had never contemplated the nature of the afterlife in the way it’s shown here either, that’s what made it so interesting.

    1. The first act of the movie was a little hard to sit through with my distracted mind. I think the pie scene was five minutes, which I think is a little excessive and unnecessary…although I’d take a good 20 mins to eat a good pie haha. Thanks, Brittani!

  4. I hope I can get to see this, as it looks unmissable! Though I did read a review by another blogger who found the ghost unintentionally funny! Maybe it’s a love it or loathe it kind of film. Glad it worked for you and it sounds like you connected with the story on a personal level.

  5. It is soooo good. I’m not sure what I liked most about it. I do love how it blew away any expectation I might have had. Love reading your enthusiasm for it.

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